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Can You Swim?

Can You Swim?

We are afloat in a virtual ocean of relationships every day.  We have to be able to swim to truly live in this world.

Some float by in their life jackets. Others use boats to ride by without getting wet. Both miss experiencing the ocean - the danger, the excitement and the joy of real relationships.

Good relationships are key to a successful society.  Here I not only refer to good business relationships or stable political relationships, but in fact the intimate relationships that have been disappearing steadily - relationships between man and wife, brothers and sisters, and friends.  Our value systems have become corrupted by the subjective post-modern era we live in – we are now all rebels without a cause!

We don't want to waste time swimming through relationships that might keep us from realizing our own potential.  We would rather start the engine on our power boat and cut across the surface, i.e., use people to get where we want to go.  This has become the pragmatic approach to relationships. 

Last Updated ( Friday, 07 August 2009 13:55 )

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Where is the Judge? - Part II

Where is the Judge? -  Part II

Relationships are the glue that holds our world together.  Marriage affixes our passions to our spouse; parenting secures sacrificial love for our children; and a business relationship attaches loyalty to a partner.  So well accepted is this principle that a commonly applied synonym for relationship is the word “bond.” 

Another interesting place where our American vernacular applies the word “bond”...

Last Updated ( Monday, 29 June 2009 12:47 )

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Where is the Judge? - Part I

Where is the Judge? - Part I

My grandson walked through the front door in his soiled baseball uniform with his hat in his hand and his lip dragging on the ground.  “How did it go?”  I asked, even though his body language had already supplied the answer.  “They cheated!” was his reply. 

Both teams had arrived at the field assuming that the normal rules of Little League would guarantee a fair and fun contest.  However, the umpir...

Last Updated ( Monday, 29 June 2009 12:40 )

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Eating a Bag of Salt Together

Eating a Bag of Salt Together

A good friend of mine just came in my office and gave me a big hug. I call this man a good friend because we have shared some important life experiences – some good, some not so good. In fact, recently we had a pretty major conflict, one where we disagreed pretty seriously. The good thing was that we are both savvy enough to know how to disagree. Neither of us said those kinds of things that wound...

Last Updated ( Thursday, 18 June 2009 10:09 )

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Deposits to the Trust Bank

Deposits to the Trust Bank

Relationships are soooooooo multidimensional. Three aspects that come to mind are love, trust and intimacy. We often believe that the characteristics of one of these aspects of relationship apply to the other two. When we make that assumption we are wrong. For instance, love is supposed to be strong. Real love is willing to overlook a whole bunch of infractions on the other person’s part. In the B...

Last Updated ( Thursday, 18 June 2009 10:06 )

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